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Ibinabo Fiberesima |
So much in love with showbiz and entertainment right
from her teens, Ibinabo Fiberesima had a taste of
this life-long interest shortly after gaining
admission into the university as she contested and
won an 'Elopee Entertainment' sponsored Miss
Wonderland beauty pageant in 1990. This however
became a turning point in her life as she thereafter
got involved in acting, modelling, singing (to some
extent), contracts and beauty pageants. Currently
the chief executive officer of 'Miss Africa Beauty
Pageant' the extroverted artiste believes she is a
Jack of all trade and also master of all.
Born to an Okirika father and an Irish mother,
Ibinabo lived with her grandmother for the greater
part of her childhood and adolescent years. The
second child in a family of six, she studied English
Language and Literature at the University of Ibadan
from where she graduated in 1994. Apparently
destined for greatness in showbiz and entertainment,
she didn't work with her degree for one day as she
got 'The Pyramid' night club as birthday and
graduation present from her ex-boyfriend. "I got the
night club the month I came out of school, so I just
started doing business. I preferred a night club
because I am a karaoke freak, I love karaoke, I love
to sing."
A single parent to three boys (two of them
biological), she soon discovered that as she started
having her kids, she needed to spend more time with
them. And the club wasn't well managed because she
didn't really know anything about night club
management. Instead of generating profit, 'The
Pyramid' incurred great debts. Apparently trying to
avoid a nervous breakdown, the fair-complexioned
lady said she had no option but to put the property
up for sale about three years ago. That was shortly
before travelling to London with her son to unwind.
An ex-beauty queen, and to a great extent still
looking pretty and charming even after two kids, it
would be an understatement to say that Ibinabo still
attracts the attention of the opposite sex. However,
one aspect of her life that seems puzzling to many
is why she chose to be a single parent. "Well, that
isn't anybody's choice, it happens. I thank God that
even as a single mother, I am a strong woman, So, I
really don't miss that part of it". Having grown up
with her mother, father, grandmother". And in the
presence of many family members, she believes that
the love and experience she received from them goes
a long way in assisting her bring up and take proper
care of her sons: nine, six and two years old
respectively.
Even after three children Ibinabo said she still
wants more. How? When would she get married then?
"When the Lord wants it to happen. And He will soon,
I know". This year? "Even if it is tomorrow. I miss
that part of my life. I love the family setting".
When asked what she looks out for in a man she would
love to get married to, her response was swift but
simple: "Honesty", She went on to reveal why she
isn't married yet even after two biological children
for two different men: "I found out two days after
my grandmother's death that I was pregnant. I was
shattered because she longed for me to have a child
she could carry. I was really prepared for the baby,
but not for marriage. I wasn't ready for that at the
point, I just wanted my baby. With the second one, I
was really ready to settle down, but it just didn't
work. That's life."
For now, the nervy actress said she isn't ready for
marriage, but wouldn't hesitate to go into it if it
is the Lord's wish. Reason(s) for not being ready?
Her career. According to her, she has picked up with
her career again and she is going places with it. "I
want to be able to stand firm." Is she an
independent person? "I am a very independent woman."
How much is she worth? "I don't know; I am not
telling you that side."
If she had not gone into showbiz, Ibinabo said she
would have been a full-time housewife. But she
quickly added that for now, it is no longer
possible. " I don't want to be anybody's housewife
again. That time has passed. Now, I will own a
career. But that doesn't make me less a mother."
In her shoes, being partly Irish, many would prefer
running away from the hustles and bustles of Nigeria
to settle in Ireland, or somewhere in Europe. As far
as this idea is concerned, Ibinabo reasons
differently. She sees Nigeria as the place to be and
doesn't in any way prefer to live in Europe. " I
will never leave Nigeria. Maybe I am one of the
idiots, as some of my friends call me. There is so
much to do here. Everyday I wake up I have ideas in
my head. I go after them and I get them done. In
London, I can be indoors for a whole week without
stepping out. It is so boring, and why would I go
out and do all the odd jobs? Why would I do that
when I can live like a queen in my country?" Gosh!
Having emerged second runner-up of the Most
Beautiful Girl in Nigeria pageant (1991), first
runner -up Miss Nigeria (1990) and winner, Miss
Wonderland, Ibinabo realised that she enjoys showbiz
more than any other business. Knowing that only
pageant winners proceed to other international
contests (a situation she dislikes since she
believes other contestants ought to be given similar
opportunities), Ibinabo registered her own outfit,
'Miss African Beauty Pageant' and got the franchise
for Miss Earth, Miss Intercontinental and Miss
Tourism International.
Having taken the Miss Nigeria (2003) first
runner-up, Eva Ewemade Ogbebor to the Miss Earth
Pageant in the Philippines, reigning Miss Nigeria
(2003) to Miss Intercontinental in Japan, Ibinabo
looks forward to taking the Miss Nigeria (2003)
second runner-up to Sri-Lanka later tin the year for
the Miss Tourism Intercontinental pageant.
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